Professor Zhang told us that the human body can be interpreted from three levels: tangible molecules, intangible energy, and intangible information. Analogizing to a smartphone, it consists of hardware, software, and electricity. The physical body is analogous to the hardware, merely serving as a carrier of information and energy. When the phone battery is drained, the hardware is damaged, and the screen goes completely black, the information inside — those photos, conversations, memos — do they disappear? Is the death of life as terrifying as the destruction of phone hardware? But the love, memories, experiences, and relationships carried by the human body, these pieces of information never dissipate.
This is not obscure philosophy, but rather sets the tone for "peace of mind": what we seek to settle is the eternal flow of information and spiritual existence that transcends the transience of the physical body.
「 1、 Breaking the Cocoon"
When" Good people "learn to be true to themselves
" Good people are more likely to get sick than bad people. ”The words of Professor Wang Erdong from Soochow University are like a stone thrown into a calm lake, creating layers of ripples. Many pairs of eyes in the audience, accustomed to smiling, enduring, and giving, showed surprise and deep reflection for the first time.
A breast cancer patient choked up while sharing: "We always suppress ourselves and pursue perfection, but forget that emotions also need an outlet." Xu Guoyuan, a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner, pointed out the root cause of emotional disorders with a sharp and to-the-point observation, and advised, "Don't always treat yourself as a 'patient'. Do what you can and live without pressure."
This is no longer a mere health science popularization, but an enlightenment about “self-authenticity”. Behind the facade of a good person, there is often the suppression of anger, the concealment of sadness, and the neglect of needs. And sometimes, illness is precisely the body's most honest and intense cry. The first step towards "soothing the nerves" may be to bravely gaze into one's inner self, acknowledging and accepting those real emotions that were once defined as "bad".
When Ms. Qu, a psychologist from Shandong, shared how she had exhausted herself in the process of pursuing achievements and was finally brought to a halt by a serious illness , many people saw themselves reflected in her story , and realized that perhaps they had always wanted to live for others to see, and after falling ill, they should simply breathe freely for themselves.
"II. Resonance"
Melting ice in the sound waves of a "family"
Theory is a map. And experience is the true journey. The most touching scenery in the camp is not all on the podium.
Ms. Cao, originally from Tianjin, arrived with a heavy burden in her heart. She was filled with distrust towards the medical system and fear of illness, enveloping herself tightly. However, with the love and support of her friend Aunt Rui Zhi, who accompanied her on walks around Suzhou, and the kindness and care provided by Teacher Zhang Wei, as well as the listening and attention from Doctors Ye and Wang, who never condescended to her—“unlike the doctors I had seen before who spoke to patients with their hands crossed and their backs bent”—she felt a profound change. It was until one night when her roommate Xiaofei silently administered her medication that the iceberg in her heart suddenly melted. "Everyone and everything I encounter is love. This medicine of love, I have swallowed," she said with tears in her eyes, her tone soft and firm like never before
